Ways to Protect Yourself From the Winter Blues

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By Melovy

Dark mornings can mean dark moods

It was dark when I got up this morning, and I didn’t get up particularly early. But still the sun lazed around for another hour or so, and didn’t bother rising till five minutes past eight. In Europe this coming weekend – the last in October – the clocks go back so when I get up next Monday morning it will be light. But by the 24th of November it will be even darker in the morning than it was today, and from then on there ain’t no sunshine before eight till it’s almost Valentine’s day. (6th February if you must know, but that makes you even more obsessive than I am, plus it’s not nearly so romantic.)

As I write this it’s still pitch black over in Hubber headquarters’ land of San Francisco, as long as you’ve remembered to switch the lights out when you left. (Do you leave? Or do you live there all night? I think you do, just the way the way my kids used to think their teachers lived in school and then did a double-take when we met one in the supermarket.) But I am getting off my subject, which is actually quite serious. Still, writing nonsense is a great antidote to a problem I used to have and that still afflicts many, many people who live in northern latitudes and a few further south. Some call it being allergic to winter, some call it SAD, otherwise known as Seasonal Affective Disorder. I call it wanting to bury my head under the quilt in mid-November and never surface again till February 29th. (On which date the sun will rise at 7.06am, since you asked.)

Oh, yes, I was about to explain that in Hubberland you can expect to see the sun this morning at 7.27 am, which is ten minutes later than your compatriots in New York will watch it rise out of the Atlantic. But, don’t worry; you still get more minutes of daylight because it will dip into the Pacific forty-five minutes later than it goes behind the foothills of the Appalachians. (I’m using local time in both cases, of course, otherwise your day would be 3 hours and something or other shorter – oh, you work it out; I can’t be bothered.)

Seasonal Affective Disorder hits many people

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Back to the serious bit. Where I grew up the latitude is roughly 61° North, and there’s not much of the world further north: most of Alaska, parts of Canada (mainly the Yukon and Northern Territories), Greenland, Iceland, most of Norway and Sweden, all of Finland and a good chunk of Russia. By mid-December sunrise is after nine and sunset before three. That’s less than six hours of daylight, and the further north you go the darker it gets. Hiding under the quilt doesn’t sound quite so silly now does it? Actually, excessively sleeping is one of the symptoms of SAD. Some others are less energy, difficulty concentrating in the afternoon, lack of interest in work or activities. The one activity there’s more interest in is eating, so it won’t surprise you to learn another symptom is putting on weight.

But during the winter months my cats put on weight, laze about in front of the fire all day long. The symptoms they don’t seem to suffer from are unhappiness and irritability, but then they aren’t trying to get to work for nine o’ clock, having waded through six inches of snow. Neither do they try to cram Christmas shopping into their lunch hour or spend hours leafing through recipe books trying to decide what to cook for the vegetarian who is coming for Christmas lunch (that’s me by the way, and honestly all you need to do is stuff a pepper with some risotto and I’ll be happy.) My point – yes I do have one – is that perhaps many of the symptoms of so-called seasonal affective disorder are actually a very sensible response to cold, dark weather. It’s only because people think we should be able to keep going in the same way as we do in warmer times that depression strikes. Depression is, after all, characterised by feelings of worthlessness, and there’s nothing more guaranteed to make you feel worthless than thinking you should be doing something you aren’t and that everybody else is managing better than you are.

Some words of wisdom I heard many years ago are:

Don’t compare your inside to someone else’s outside.

Put simply, what this means is don’t ever compare yourself to anyone else. You know what’s going on inside your own mind, but all you can ever see of someone else is what they choose to show you. So that woman who seems to manage to hold down a hectic job, look after five kids and go to salsa dancing classes twice a week could be crying herself to sleep every night and wishing she had your calm confidence in crises.

My garden last winter
My garden last winter

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More Ways to Survive The Winter Blues

Apart from being gentle on yourself and not comparing yourself to others here are a few more ways to survive the dark winter months:

Write silly hubs. (Honestly try this: I smile the whole way through every one I write.) Of course it doesn’t have to be a hub, any fun writing will do. And if writing is not your thing, then find some other way to laugh. Watch funny films, or reruns of your favourite sit-coms.

Get outside every day in daylight, and go for a walk. This helps in two ways: it provides much needed exercise, and some studies have linked SAD to lack of light. Ordinary indoor lighting has a much lower luminosity than sunlight, even the weak daylight of a typical overcast day provides 1000 lux, compared to under 500 lux for most offices. And winter’s bite is deepest and the darkest clouds glower at you all day long, you’ll still get 100 lux outside and only 50 lux in most family living rooms.

Some people find light therapy helps. This is a special lamp that emits around 10,000 lux, roughly the same as full daylight. Some doctors prescribe these lamps, or you can buy your own. They used to be expensive, but nowadays can be found at reasonable prices. You need to sit close to the lamp for 30 minutes a day, usually in the morning. This treatment doesn’t work for everyone and if it works for you, you will start to feel better after a few weeks. It is also now possible to buy light bulbs for ordinary light-fittings that mimic daylight, so it is worth trying these. If you are on any medication for depression then do consult your doctor first before trying light therapy.


Vitamin D


Vitamin C has long been considered the winter vitamin, but lately some scientists have found Vitamin D to be just as important if not more at preventing colds and flus. We mostly get vitamin D from the sun and many people are deficient in it due to heavy use of suncream. Deficiency is also implicated in many diseases, including some cancers, and is also sometimes found to be a factor in depression. For all these reasons, it makes sense to take a daily dose of vitamin D throughout the winter months.

Finally, remember that in winter many animals hibernate. If it seems a struggle to head out to that yoga class when the wind is howling and rain is pouring down, then don’t. Lay your yoga mat out in front of the log fire (or a radiator will do) and as you do your stretches, know that you are letting your body and mind flow with the seasons instead of battling against them.

Namaste.

Extra Note:

For more ideas please read the wonderful comments that have been pouring in from other Hubbers. Thank you everyone for you contributions!


If It is More Than The Winter Blues

If you are experiencing more than the winter blues, then please do seek help. There are many, many people who experience depression and many, many who recover from it.

Comments

Motown2Chitown profile image

Motown2Chitown Level 5 Commenter 7 months ago

What a wonderful hub! I'm familiar with SAD, and suffer from some of its symptoms myself during the weather. By February, my mood is usually dark and dreary. This hub is full of great suggestions (and interesting little tidbits). I personally grew up around 45 degrees north (halfway between the Equator and the North Pole). I often forget how much there is above that.

Ugh?? Six hours of daylight?? I couldn't handle it.

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Shelly McRae Level 3 Commenter 7 months ago

Those kinds of winters are the reason I moved to Phoenix, Arizona. Plenty of sunshine, even in the middle of winter. Great hub. Thanks for sharing.

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JamaGenee Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

Yes, a wonderful hub! Having grown up in northeast Kansas and not having the good sense to escape to a warmer clime until last year, I'm all too familiar with SAD, otherwise known as "cabin fever". I never got around to buying the special light, but read several years ago that 10 minutes of sunlight supplies the daily requirement of Vitamin D. This goes along with what you wrote about taking a daylight walk, and I found that 10 minutes in whatever passed for "sun" really did help alleviate the SAD.

This summer in central Oklahoma, where the mercury seemed to be stuck at 100-110F for 3 months, I discovered there's such a thing as "summer cabin fever". It was just too hot (and even dangerous, according to authorities and news programs) to go outside for more than a few minutes, so I didn't unless absolutely necessary..n.g. to buy food. At one point I noticed I was experiencing the same symptoms as wintertime SAD (sleeping/eating more than usual, general malaise), so I made it a point to go outside early in the morning when it was only 85-90F (sorry, don't know what that is in Celsius) to get a much-needed dose of sun.

A perhaps silly question: How long does daylight last in the summer in your part of Scotland? Just curious, as a friend in Iceland says extra-short winter days are balanced by extra-long days in summer when the sun doesn't go down until midnight.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Motown,

Thank you so much for your comment. I had a moment of wondering after posting this if the tone of this had been a little too flippant, but as you’ve had some of symptoms and found this useful it seems to have struck a chord. My intention is always to aid others in finding a little self-love, which goes a very long way to easing depression of any kind.

I know what you mean about February - whenever we've had the chance to head south for sunshine during the mid-term break I’ve found it a great antidote. And at the end of the month the lighter mornings are very welcome here.

45 degrees sounds like it could be the perfect latitude, neither too hot or cold, I’d guess?

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Shelly,

Thanks for your kind comment. Glad you liked the hub. Phoenix sounds like a great place to be in winter, when can I visit? :)

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carcro Level 6 Commenter 7 months ago

I love to go for walks, and for me I'm lucky I work close the The Forks in Winnipeg, a beautiful place to walk through. Walking helps immensely on my lunch break, other than that playing a musical instrument also helps, in fact I find I have more free time in the winter because of the cold outside. The extra time allows me to spend more time with my old guitar friend. Great Hub and topic. Voted UP!!

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi JamaGenee,

Thank you for your very interesting comment. I’ve heard of cabin fever, but didn’t realise that it was the same as SAD, though I can see now that makes sense. Funnily enough just before I read your comment, I was thinking I should have added a bit about vitamin D, so I will do that now.

I found what you wrote about summertime SAD really interesting; I guess hot climates have their downsides too. Coincidentally, for a while there was a family at our children’s school who came from one of the southern states, and the father said he used to get depressed in the summer heat, so preferred our climate.

Thank you for asking about the hours of daylight in summer, I almost included it in the hub. Where I live now in central Scotland sun rises before 4.30 in June and sets around 10pm, with twilight ending around 11. That gives us about 17 and a half hours of daylight. Where I grew up, the Shetland Isles, the sun is up around half past 3 and sets after half past 10, giving almost 19 hours of daylight! So yes, it makes up for the dark winters, and I love the light evenings. Iceland is even further north, so it will be even more extreme there.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Carco,

Thanks for your comment, the vote up and for the suggestion about playing a musical instrument. I can see that would help to lift the spirits in the same way as humour does. In Shetland there has always been a musical tradition, mainly the violin or ‘fiddle.” My father used to play on winter evenings both at home and with a group of others. That tradition probably helped them all, though not nearly so many play now.

I’m intrigued now to learn more about The Forks at Winnipeg, have you written about them?

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carcro Level 6 Commenter 7 months ago

Yes, you can certainly read about The Forks in Winnipeg on one of my hubs. On a side note my daughters taking violin lessons for the past two years, soon I will be able to jam with her. My son is already a guitar player extraordinaire, but he's more into heavy rock, I'm more folksy... but for all of us its an escape for sure from the winter blues.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Thanks Carco, I’ve taken a very quick look at your hub and it looks interesting. I’ll take a closer look when I’m not busy helping with homework etc. Your family sounds very musical.

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FloraBreenRobison 7 months ago

SAD is a problem for me in January as choir rehearsals don't start until the third week and all the Christmas lights have been taken down. I take vitamin D even outside the wintertime as it helps absorb calcium.

oh, and about Daylight savings-because United states decided to switch what dates this ends and begins, we Canadians had to follow suit or our airplane schedules would be a nightmare. We don't fall back until Nov.5th into 6th.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Flora, Thank you for your comment. Sorry to hear you have the blues in January. I’ve been told by a German friend it’s traditional where she grew up to leave the Christmas lights up till the end of January to bring some cheer, so you could always try that.

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JamaGenee Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

Flora and Melovy, it never occurred to me until now why January always seems particularly dark. Because all the Christmas lights have been taken down! Thanks for that eye-opener! ;D

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Motown2Chitown Level 5 Commenter 7 months ago

Actually, I love where I live now, which is about two hundred and fifty miles south of where I finished growing up. I was born in the metro area in which I live now. We have four very distinct seasons. The summers can get VERY hot and humid, but don't last too terribly long. We have wonderful Springs and Autumns, and cold, but not VERY cold, winters. My only complaint is that Spring often seems to be slow in arriving, so we're all desperate for sunlight by then. :)

I thought the tone of the hub was perfect. :)

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Thank you Motown, much appreciated. And your :)

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waes-hael Level 1 Commenter 7 months ago

I'd like to add that becoming passionate about something proved to be the best way to overcome winter blues for me. When you're taken by your passion there's a lot less time left for feeling bad.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Waes-hael,

Thanks for your comment. Yes, being passionate about something is a good way to let go of the blues. Thank you for adding that.

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JamaGenee Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

I couldn't help but think of this hub this morning when I woke up to a dreary, rainy day! The good news being such weather is the exception, not the norm. If it were, I never would've gone to all the trouble of moving here. ;D

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Simone Smith Level 7 Commenter 7 months ago

"Don’t compare your inside to someone else’s outside." is probably the number one nugget of wisdom I live by. So glad you included it!

And by the by, we TOTALLY sleep under our desks at HPHQ ;)

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Jama,

Wow, I am delighted to read that this hub was with you in your waking moments. What an honour. Thanks. Hope your day has turned out fine.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Simone,

So you do sleep under your desks! I just knew it! And after reading your comment I think I’m going to go tweek the hub a bit to highlight: "Don’t compare your inside to someone else’s outside.” It really deserves a headline. How great that it is your number one way to live.

Thank you for your great comment.

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Meadow Kelly Level 2 Commenter 7 months ago

This is such a wonderful hub, Melovy, followed by some great tips from other hubbers. Really good share!

Melovy profile image

Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Meadow Kelly, Thank you for your very kind comment. Glad you enjoyed the hub, and I agree that the tips in the comments are great.

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baygirl33 Level 4 Commenter 7 months ago

Thanks for the reminders!As I write,it's darkening(about 7:P.M.)and having just lost my husband,the darkness really depresses me.Not looking forward to November.I,also liked the tips in the comments.

voted you up and useful.

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Denise Handlon Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

Very useful hub.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Baygirl,

Sorry to hear you’ve just lost your husband. Any time of year loss is hard, but at this time of year possibly more so. I recommend to you this hub on bereavement by maren morgan:

http://maren-morgan-m-t.hubpages.com/hub/The-New-N

I hope you will find it comforting.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Denise, thank you for your comment. I’m glad you found it useful.

Donkeyjacket 7 months ago

Until just now I thought that a hub was something chrome that you found in the middle of the wire spokes of a vintage motorcar, with a nice chrome emblem on it (the ones that say "Riley" or "MG" are the best ones.) One lives and learns.

For me, I am stupid enough to really believe that spring begins on the first day of January - that sure helps.

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Melovy Hub Author 7 months ago

Hi Donkeyjacket,

Yes, hub has a new meaning these days, though of course it would be possible to write a hub about hubs of the chrome variety! Thanks very much for reading and commenting.

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JamaGenee Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

I used to be a courier a la FedEx and UPS, so until I came to HP, a hub was where ALL the day's freight was sent to be sorted in the wee hours and then sent on its merry way for delivery a few hours later. If memory serves, FedEx's hub is at or near the Atlanta airport.

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Melovy Hub Author 6 months ago

Hi Jama,

Hmm, as if I didn’t have anything better to do with my time (such as finish two hubs I’ve started) I have amusing myself by checking the dictionary definition of hub. It is Hub: Boston, Massachusetts or hub: central part, center of activity, central airport. Hmm, again, (brain clanks and rattles) could there be the makings of a hub in this?

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JamaGenee Level 8 Commenter 6 months ago

A hub about other types of hubs? Go for it! ;D

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Melovy Hub Author 6 months ago

Hi Jama, You do it! You have so much more experience of hubs with all that freight couriering. :)

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